Huge change & adjustment happening 9 months from now.....

Pick your jaw up off the floor.

If any of you know me, in person or blog only, you’d know that I do not want children.
So to answer your question or insert disappointment upon you, no I am not pregnant.

However my life is changing right now, again in 2 months and more drastically 9 months from now.

Current Change:
Changing the dynamic of a long time friendship after recently being treated and dismissed like a second class friend. I’ll go into the details of it one day, but right now it’s entirely too fresh and sour to get into.
Short version – This person is no longer considered family to me. We’ll still be friends, just not extended family nor a priority friend.

2 month change:
My oldest and dearest friend is in the midst of a messing and hostile separation.
For her own sanity and to prevent injury against herself or her soon to be ex spouse, it’s best she move out immediately.  With that said she may obtain an apt where she is (costly) or move here in January and save money for the big move to follow in June. (She is currently in another province and time zone)

9 month change:
Oldest dearest friend, her 4 kids (maybe only two) and I will be living together in a 5 bedroom house.
I say maybe only two, cos at this point and time, we believe two of her four kids are going to opt to stay with their Dad.

I’m excited and nervous for this change. We have been planning house rules etc for the kids, our dating lives etc. Cos even though I’m not their parent or even an aunt by blood relation, what I do around them is still sending a message. So there will not be random men coming and going from the house, ever.
When male friends come to the house, they will have to act like gentlemen at all times.

The hardest part of the adjustment will be living with the kids.
Not for me, but for the kids and adjusting to the fact that I will have a say in no TV before homework is completed, temporary groundings until their mother gets home etc.
More of a temporary guardian than another parent.

Some of the general house rules that have/will be implemented (subject to change) will be:
-Dinner at the kitchen table every night unless special occasion or to lazy to argue with them.
-Schedule bedtimes during the school week.
-Games night once a month (maybe more).
-A closed bedroom door requires knocking first, no walking in. (for both adults and kids)
-Rotating chores for all the kids and adults. They’re at an age where they should have a part in the household chores.  (Dishes, vacuuming, garbage duty, cleaning bathroom and learning how to do laundry and asking if anyone has anything to add to make a full load)

This is great on paper, and I’m sure will change as we all adjust accordingly to the new living arrangements.
So this is the big change taking place in my life.

As hard and frustrating it will be at times, I’m optimistic for it and all the learning, growing, and adapting it will have to offer.

In addition to the 40 before 40 list

Chatting with a g/f recently and we got to talking about more personal things women should be doing.
More so, your responsiblitiy to your womanhood body and health period.

Never gave it much thought, but as it turns out I've neglected my womanhood duties for the last couple years.
In addition to those details, I made a new list of things I have to do, that well, I've just been lazy about.
Some due to finances, others pure laziness.

Here is my list:

-Start self breast examinations.. again.
I found a lump a few years ago, had a mammogram and everything was fine. yay!
I havent checked myself since. (started again) the reminder now hangs in my shower.

-Yearly womanhood appointment. - It's been 3 years. We're suppose to go every year. (apt made)

-Get my passport (soon)

-Renew my Drivers licence (soon)

-Go to the dentist. - it's been 7 years. I use to have braces, you'd think I'd be more vigilant about it.
An apt. will be made in the new year.

-File 2008 taxes - Done Oct 19.09

-Get my eyes examined.
Okay this one is only less than a year delayed. This one is soley delayed due to finances.

What have you neglected to do recently that should be done annually?

Got a cat.

I did.  MY girlfriend's cat had a litter and I fell in love with one, then another.
She decided that on her visit to Vancouver in the next two weeks, she is going to bring him down with her.
Since knowingly I wont actually follow through and go get one myself.

He's adorable.

Mr. Cornelius Milo D. aka The Cornhole. or Corny. :)

I'm sure it will be an adjustment to have a pet again, and make arrangements to have a pet sitter etc when I go away for weekends. But overall, I think it will be a good thing, allergies and all. :)

If my allergies win, I'll find him another home. Only time will tell.
Keep your fingers crossed.

CMcB will have a posting to add in the next while.. she's a little delayed with work, sleeping in, reno's, life etc.

Stay tuned.