This one is too good not to share....
I could have just soiled myself 20 minutes ago. A position I applied for contacted me via email. Advising the phone number on my resume is out of service etc.
Of course I quickly log in to monster and take a look at my resume. It's an old one from 9 years ago. Half old infor, half new. WTH! I log in frequently enough to know that it wasn't like that yesterday. The only thing I did differently today, than other days, was upload a cover letter to my profile.
I quickly updated the information, logged out, and back in. Phew. All is good again.
What I'd like to know is how did that happen? And is this error a reflection of why I'm not receiving any phone calls?
A story for the books.
Btw, this is not an entry bashing Monster.ca. They provide a great service and knowledgeable information on how to write any type of letter you could imagine. How to ask for a raise, to salary expectations, (which I used today, thank you) and many more learning tools and tips.
Aside from this small weird glitch, I'm happy with Monster.ca & their team!
Wednesday, 30 November 2011
Job Offer Updates.
Rumours are running rampant this week of people turning down offers, new offers being made by default of said turn downs. People asking to be bought out now, leave early, and still receive their severance. It's crazy. Only one person has been reported to lose their package. How much truth there is behind that? No one knows.
Alas, I'm still slightly hurt. Yes, yes, I know I couldn't take an offer if one was provided, but it would be nice to know that at least they wanted me.
I've been asking myself, with the way things have been going down, would I really want to work for a company that is so unorganized (maybe these are normal transactions) that they are now offering positions to people who stirred the pot so badly and vocally announced their disappointment, just so I can avoid the stress of finding new employment? Part of me says yes, just out of shear panic and what if's. The other half of me says HELL NO. Been there, done that.
I never wanted to pull the entitlement card, but come on!!!
There are some people who received offers that clearly shouldn't have been. (my opinion). You can tell simply by their demeaner.
I am starting to freak out a bit. I have 30 days, 22 of those being work days to secure a new job for Jan 3rd. Or I have to dip into my severance. Really not an option I want to consider.
I've applied, applied and applied, with no results. I'm quailifed,more than so in some cases. I'm not concerned about that. Though I wonder if my availability date has something to do with it.
Here's to things looking more positive and promising in Decemmber.
Alas, I'm still slightly hurt. Yes, yes, I know I couldn't take an offer if one was provided, but it would be nice to know that at least they wanted me.
I've been asking myself, with the way things have been going down, would I really want to work for a company that is so unorganized (maybe these are normal transactions) that they are now offering positions to people who stirred the pot so badly and vocally announced their disappointment, just so I can avoid the stress of finding new employment? Part of me says yes, just out of shear panic and what if's. The other half of me says HELL NO. Been there, done that.
I never wanted to pull the entitlement card, but come on!!!
There are some people who received offers that clearly shouldn't have been. (my opinion). You can tell simply by their demeaner.
I am starting to freak out a bit. I have 30 days, 22 of those being work days to secure a new job for Jan 3rd. Or I have to dip into my severance. Really not an option I want to consider.
I've applied, applied and applied, with no results. I'm quailifed,more than so in some cases. I'm not concerned about that. Though I wonder if my availability date has something to do with it.
Here's to things looking more positive and promising in Decemmber.
Want Vs. Need
A friend on the east coast of the Island confuses and frustrates me. Her and her long time b/f (who has his opinion of what a women's responsibility around the house is....) their two dogs, a cat, a gecko, two 60L fish tanks, and a turtle that is allowed to roam the house are broke. All the time.
Until recently, they only had fur pets. She works 3 jobs, he's military, and they rent out the basement of their house. Yet, still broke.
B, the b/f, sits on his ass playing video games from the moment he gets home, til he goes to bed. She is EXPECTED to clean the house, and pick up after him after working 2 p/t jobs every day, and a floating 3rd job, just to make sure she can put insurance on her truck (that he needs), and gas in it (that he uses).
Decided that it was a good idea to get more pets. Cos you know, they're rolling in the dough. He pays for nothing and does nothing around the house. Whole other story, I can't get on right now.....
The point is, he makes decent coin, she's struggling to put insurance on her truck so she can drive his lazy ass to/from work cos he doesn't know how drive, when she's not working 1 of her 3 p/t jobs. They "apparently" live within their means, but yet, broke all the time.
This morning I read on her FB that she had to search the couch for enough cash to buy cream for their morning coffee. Although she said she was laughing at this, it made me incredibly sad.
What makes me even more infuriated, is she won't leave. She's too broke to leave him. Sure they live in a very small town where affordability is key, and apparently are living within their means. (approved for a $500G mortgage, but bought for only $250G) but since they've been there, they haven't had two pennies to rub together, though can find it to buy fish tanks, fish, a gecko, and a turtle, on top of the 2 dogs, and 1 cat they already have. Not to mention the ongoing expenses those things cost.
Why do people do this kind of stuff? I look at this situation and think of teenage girls who think all they need is love to raise a baby etc. Oh ya? You trying living on love alone, see how far that gets you.
Can someone shed some light on why/how people think and live this way? Maybe they have bad habits they spend their cash on. I know what each of them make, and they should be well established as far as savings, having nice things, etc. Not searching the couches for change to buy milk. Maybe, they're just really bad with their finances.
Until recently, they only had fur pets. She works 3 jobs, he's military, and they rent out the basement of their house. Yet, still broke.
B, the b/f, sits on his ass playing video games from the moment he gets home, til he goes to bed. She is EXPECTED to clean the house, and pick up after him after working 2 p/t jobs every day, and a floating 3rd job, just to make sure she can put insurance on her truck (that he needs), and gas in it (that he uses).
Decided that it was a good idea to get more pets. Cos you know, they're rolling in the dough. He pays for nothing and does nothing around the house. Whole other story, I can't get on right now.....
The point is, he makes decent coin, she's struggling to put insurance on her truck so she can drive his lazy ass to/from work cos he doesn't know how drive, when she's not working 1 of her 3 p/t jobs. They "apparently" live within their means, but yet, broke all the time.
This morning I read on her FB that she had to search the couch for enough cash to buy cream for their morning coffee. Although she said she was laughing at this, it made me incredibly sad.
What makes me even more infuriated, is she won't leave. She's too broke to leave him. Sure they live in a very small town where affordability is key, and apparently are living within their means. (approved for a $500G mortgage, but bought for only $250G) but since they've been there, they haven't had two pennies to rub together, though can find it to buy fish tanks, fish, a gecko, and a turtle, on top of the 2 dogs, and 1 cat they already have. Not to mention the ongoing expenses those things cost.
Why do people do this kind of stuff? I look at this situation and think of teenage girls who think all they need is love to raise a baby etc. Oh ya? You trying living on love alone, see how far that gets you.
Can someone shed some light on why/how people think and live this way? Maybe they have bad habits they spend their cash on. I know what each of them make, and they should be well established as far as savings, having nice things, etc. Not searching the couches for change to buy milk. Maybe, they're just really bad with their finances.
Tuesday, 29 November 2011
Tree or No Tree
I have a fake tree I bought when I first moved out on my own. The tree is still in amazing shape. I use to love Christmas. I use to get mighty pissed when I'd race home from school and my Mum had taken the day off to decorate and there was nothing left to do.
Growing up I realized decorating was her thing. It was special to her. And we appreciated the effort. Our house always looked like a Christmas store.
Once on my own, I always put up my tree. After my folks passed, my Aunt (mum's best friend) told me I HAD to put up the tree the first Christmas after she passed. Begrudgingly I did. I was glad I did. Though following years, it became increasingly harder to put it up. The anxiety it caused me was overwhelming. I started going away for Christmas. It gave me a reason not to decorate at all.
The lights. Those damn lights are what kill me. I hate putting them on. I've had roommates that wanted to do it, so I let them. That's when I learned, even though I don't have the strength to decorate my own tree, I am a tree snob. Unless you have children, there is no reason why your tree should ever look like a 5 yr got to it. Ever. (my next tree will already have the lights on it)
A few years ago, I hosted a Christmas at home. Friends that couldn't get home for the holidays came over, and we made the best of not being alone, together. I remember clearly drinking while decorating days before, and talking aloud to my Mum. I was hosting my FIRST Christmas and doing that damn tree. ;) Asked her to pull some strings and make it snow enough to make everything pretty Christmas Day. If not, I completely understood as it was a warm winter (averaging about 6-10 degrees above 0, needs to be -3/3+ to snow).
The day comes, and we're all opening our gifts, stuffing our faces etc. Hours pass and come early evening, I looked outside, nearly jumping so high to hit the ceiling. I squealed it was SNOWING! Only Tink understood why that would make me, the city girl, excited. As I stood there with a big cheesy grin on my face, feeling so much love, silent tears running down my face, Tink had shared why this was significant with the rest of our friends. It was a perfect Christmas. Side note: I was too lazy to take down the tree that year, so I put the whole tree, fully decorated, into the guest room and closed the door....til Sept.
My tree has been up once since then. When LC House Guest was living with me. Like my Mum, LC and my Mum shared a few things that are special to them. I never questioned it, just let them have their bond. So when LC said she wanted to put up the tree, I let her. Having been best friends for 23 years, she knew I was a tree snob, then so was she. She made the most beautiful tree. I didn't want to take it down.
Though, we started a new tradition. The tree topping. I have a ugly ugly topping that my Grandmother has passed down etc. We opted not to put it up, instead we used a plastic Stanley Cup from a case of beer as the Topper. That year, the Canucks went to the Stanley Cup. :)
Since I'm in town this year for Christmas, I'm debating whether or not to put it up. If someone wants to come over and put the lights on for me, I'll wine and dine you while you do it. I'm simple with the rest of the house.
Growing up I realized decorating was her thing. It was special to her. And we appreciated the effort. Our house always looked like a Christmas store.
Once on my own, I always put up my tree. After my folks passed, my Aunt (mum's best friend) told me I HAD to put up the tree the first Christmas after she passed. Begrudgingly I did. I was glad I did. Though following years, it became increasingly harder to put it up. The anxiety it caused me was overwhelming. I started going away for Christmas. It gave me a reason not to decorate at all.
The lights. Those damn lights are what kill me. I hate putting them on. I've had roommates that wanted to do it, so I let them. That's when I learned, even though I don't have the strength to decorate my own tree, I am a tree snob. Unless you have children, there is no reason why your tree should ever look like a 5 yr got to it. Ever. (my next tree will already have the lights on it)
A few years ago, I hosted a Christmas at home. Friends that couldn't get home for the holidays came over, and we made the best of not being alone, together. I remember clearly drinking while decorating days before, and talking aloud to my Mum. I was hosting my FIRST Christmas and doing that damn tree. ;) Asked her to pull some strings and make it snow enough to make everything pretty Christmas Day. If not, I completely understood as it was a warm winter (averaging about 6-10 degrees above 0, needs to be -3/3+ to snow).
The day comes, and we're all opening our gifts, stuffing our faces etc. Hours pass and come early evening, I looked outside, nearly jumping so high to hit the ceiling. I squealed it was SNOWING! Only Tink understood why that would make me, the city girl, excited. As I stood there with a big cheesy grin on my face, feeling so much love, silent tears running down my face, Tink had shared why this was significant with the rest of our friends. It was a perfect Christmas. Side note: I was too lazy to take down the tree that year, so I put the whole tree, fully decorated, into the guest room and closed the door....til Sept.
My tree has been up once since then. When LC House Guest was living with me. Like my Mum, LC and my Mum shared a few things that are special to them. I never questioned it, just let them have their bond. So when LC said she wanted to put up the tree, I let her. Having been best friends for 23 years, she knew I was a tree snob, then so was she. She made the most beautiful tree. I didn't want to take it down.
Though, we started a new tradition. The tree topping. I have a ugly ugly topping that my Grandmother has passed down etc. We opted not to put it up, instead we used a plastic Stanley Cup from a case of beer as the Topper. That year, the Canucks went to the Stanley Cup. :)
Since I'm in town this year for Christmas, I'm debating whether or not to put it up. If someone wants to come over and put the lights on for me, I'll wine and dine you while you do it. I'm simple with the rest of the house.
Monday, 28 November 2011
Credit Checks for Job Applications?
I found something to write about.
I applied for a position within a government housing program. Just as I hit send, I forgot to click the "terms and agreement" box. I never read those things. Especially on a government site. Just as the page was turning over, I saw "agree to a credit check" etc.
Um No.
Why in the world would a government office feel the need to run a credit check on a job application site? My finances have absolutely nothing to do with my qualifications.
I wrote to the site, asking just that. Why?
Not sure how credit scores work in the states, but in Canada, every time you have a credit check done, it's a ding against your name. If it happens often, you look like a credit chaser. Which ultimately lowers your credit score.
Not a good thing for someone like me, who's building credit. And although my score is okay, now, considering I didn't have one at all 3 years ago, I'm not thrilled about anyone other than my bank doing a check. Btw - not having a credit card does more harm than good for your score, than having one. Don't have one, get one. At least then there is something on file on how well you manage having credit.
A co-worker mentioned it might be a general terms and agreement form that covers 'both' job and housing applications. That made me feel a tad better. I understand some landlords wanting to do a credit check on you before renting to you... but then again, that doesn't thrill me either. That is the whole point of calling the previous landlord and asking if you defaulted on any rent.
Now back to your regular scheduled program.
UPDATE: Dec 1/11
After speaking with a few people who work in gov't offices, it turns out that doing a credit check is the BC Government mandate for all applications. The part that still bothers me is this....They will do the check before offering you an interview or a job, That's simply not cool. I can understand if they request one upon offering you a position, but not before.
Learn something everyday.
I applied for a position within a government housing program. Just as I hit send, I forgot to click the "terms and agreement" box. I never read those things. Especially on a government site. Just as the page was turning over, I saw "agree to a credit check" etc.
Um No.
Why in the world would a government office feel the need to run a credit check on a job application site? My finances have absolutely nothing to do with my qualifications.
I wrote to the site, asking just that. Why?
Not sure how credit scores work in the states, but in Canada, every time you have a credit check done, it's a ding against your name. If it happens often, you look like a credit chaser. Which ultimately lowers your credit score.
Not a good thing for someone like me, who's building credit. And although my score is okay, now, considering I didn't have one at all 3 years ago, I'm not thrilled about anyone other than my bank doing a check. Btw - not having a credit card does more harm than good for your score, than having one. Don't have one, get one. At least then there is something on file on how well you manage having credit.
A co-worker mentioned it might be a general terms and agreement form that covers 'both' job and housing applications. That made me feel a tad better. I understand some landlords wanting to do a credit check on you before renting to you... but then again, that doesn't thrill me either. That is the whole point of calling the previous landlord and asking if you defaulted on any rent.
Now back to your regular scheduled program.
UPDATE: Dec 1/11
After speaking with a few people who work in gov't offices, it turns out that doing a credit check is the BC Government mandate for all applications. The part that still bothers me is this....They will do the check before offering you an interview or a job, That's simply not cool. I can understand if they request one upon offering you a position, but not before.
Learn something everyday.
Sunday, 27 November 2011
That was short lived.
And I'm single again. Sort of.
It's complicated.
It's a semi long distance relationship. He spends more time out of town than he does in town. Though it's only a couple hours away it still sucks. When he is in town, his Mummy has a to-do list for him to tend too....on his own house. A house she does not live at. This arrangement works for them, as he's away so often, but leaves little room for any serious romance.
We talk a lot of the phone, at night and on weekends. Though it's taking it's toll on me and since we're so new at being together again, I'm starting to wonder if this is worth it?
If I knew there was a future to look forward too, or felt more secure about where we currently stand, then I might not even be asking this question.
How do people do it? I might even ask the roommate, as he's been doing the on/off again long distance with his g/f when he has to travel for work. Sometimes it's for 6 months at a time. Plus not seeing her during the week..... I'd like to think I'm capable of managing. Maybe I could with someone I'm securely established with, but with someone I'm so new to dating???
In other news. I spoke with The Douche tonight.
Only a couple minutes, though very full of conversation. I asked him not touch base anymore. I have no malicious reason. I'm not pissed at him for anything. I simply do not see the point. If we can't openly be friends or open acquaintances, then I see no point in staying in touch.
Was I harsh or fair?
Told him he could contact me until the new year, to smooth over any questions or loose ends he might have etc. Though I doubt he'll have any. He was very quiet. Which means he's in shock, or simply has nothing to say. Plus he'll be married in 7/8 months. And whatever acquaintanceship we have would most definitely have to end at that time anyways.
So I'm single-ish again, and tightly close the novel to the Douche.
Bittersweet, though necessary.
It's complicated.
It's a semi long distance relationship. He spends more time out of town than he does in town. Though it's only a couple hours away it still sucks. When he is in town, his Mummy has a to-do list for him to tend too....on his own house. A house she does not live at. This arrangement works for them, as he's away so often, but leaves little room for any serious romance.
We talk a lot of the phone, at night and on weekends. Though it's taking it's toll on me and since we're so new at being together again, I'm starting to wonder if this is worth it?
If I knew there was a future to look forward too, or felt more secure about where we currently stand, then I might not even be asking this question.
How do people do it? I might even ask the roommate, as he's been doing the on/off again long distance with his g/f when he has to travel for work. Sometimes it's for 6 months at a time. Plus not seeing her during the week..... I'd like to think I'm capable of managing. Maybe I could with someone I'm securely established with, but with someone I'm so new to dating???
In other news. I spoke with The Douche tonight.
Only a couple minutes, though very full of conversation. I asked him not touch base anymore. I have no malicious reason. I'm not pissed at him for anything. I simply do not see the point. If we can't openly be friends or open acquaintances, then I see no point in staying in touch.
Was I harsh or fair?
Told him he could contact me until the new year, to smooth over any questions or loose ends he might have etc. Though I doubt he'll have any. He was very quiet. Which means he's in shock, or simply has nothing to say. Plus he'll be married in 7/8 months. And whatever acquaintanceship we have would most definitely have to end at that time anyways.
So I'm single-ish again, and tightly close the novel to the Douche.
Bittersweet, though necessary.
It's Time
This video is circulating the interwebz right now.
It's beautiful. It's powerful.
End Marriage Discrimination from www.getup.org.au/marriagematters.
I want this for my nephew John John.
It's beautiful. It's powerful.
End Marriage Discrimination from www.getup.org.au/marriagematters.
I want this for my nephew John John.
Thursday, 24 November 2011
GOBBLE GOBBLE
Happy Thanksgiving to my American blog-o-sphere family.
Hope you're wearing you're elastic pants.
Hope you're wearing you're elastic pants.
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
Slightly Annoyed. Surprised?
With the company changing locations, job offers being made and not being made etc. The new location has slip thru the grapevine to those of us who did not receive an offer.
The new company will be such a distance, I'm not willing to make that commute from where I live. Had I received an offer, I would have had to turn it down. Though a co-worker who lives a bit further than I, will make the commute via transit. Good luck. Thats almost 2 hours each way ontop of your work day. (via transit) No Thank You.
The part that annoys me..... the superintendent we have, came to my desk looking at how he is going to dismantle the beast of acreage that is my desk. Upon asking why, he informed me he was taking it to the new location for the reception area there.
What?
I wasn't appreciated enough to even have an offer made. (regardless that I'd have to turn it down). Just when I was in an okay place about everything, moving forward etc, I'm hit with an insult.
Just reminding myself, "you couldn't have taken it anyways".... it still would have been nice to have had that be my decision.
I was laughing with the work wife the other day. It would be ballsy of them to not offer my a position, then ask me to train my replacement. Even with how shady things went down, I'd like to believe that is even too low for them.
I'll be okay with this by the end of the day I'm sure. Right now, I'm feeling very insulted.
Next.
The new company will be such a distance, I'm not willing to make that commute from where I live. Had I received an offer, I would have had to turn it down. Though a co-worker who lives a bit further than I, will make the commute via transit. Good luck. Thats almost 2 hours each way ontop of your work day. (via transit) No Thank You.
The part that annoys me..... the superintendent we have, came to my desk looking at how he is going to dismantle the beast of acreage that is my desk. Upon asking why, he informed me he was taking it to the new location for the reception area there.
What?
I wasn't appreciated enough to even have an offer made. (regardless that I'd have to turn it down). Just when I was in an okay place about everything, moving forward etc, I'm hit with an insult.
Just reminding myself, "you couldn't have taken it anyways".... it still would have been nice to have had that be my decision.
I was laughing with the work wife the other day. It would be ballsy of them to not offer my a position, then ask me to train my replacement. Even with how shady things went down, I'd like to believe that is even too low for them.
I'll be okay with this by the end of the day I'm sure. Right now, I'm feeling very insulted.
Next.
Monday, 21 November 2011
Hey Job Recruiters.....Know Your Audience!
It's no secret now that I'm looking for new employment due to the company I work for being sold. With that, I know exactly when my end date is. :-)
I've set my resume up on a few big name employment sites last night. Both of which potential employers can search you out. Today, I received a phone call requesting to discuss my experience etc.
Upon calling them back, I googled the phone number first. It's a temping agency. No where does it say I'm looking for temp work, and the infor I posted clearly states what I'm interested in, why and when I'm available.
This girl, while pleasant, continued to call me by the wrong name. Correcting her each time. Each time. She sounded confused when I advised her I wasn't interested in temporary work.
She would say things like, "Are you just temping until the new year then looking for new employment?". or "How are long is your contact there for?", and without listening to my responses, "Well, why don't you contact me closer to when you're available for work, and I'll help you find some temping".
Informing her repeatedly, that I was employed full-time until the New Year, and was looking for full-time, stable employment. Hoping to be gainfully employed full time permanent with a new company with a start date of Jan 3, 2012.
She still didn't get it.
I had to simply ask her if she actually read my resume and cover letter etc. Cos it was clearly stated as to what the situation is. Had she read that, she would have known. I understand she's just recruiting etc. but come on... know your audience.
I had to laugh when she asked me to pass along her contact information to anyone else in the accounting dept that may need her assistance. I giggled, and advised "Sure I'll send that infor to NY for you".
This contact bugged me slightly as the information was there to be had. Had it not, I'd understand completely her calling me.
Know your audience.
I've set my resume up on a few big name employment sites last night. Both of which potential employers can search you out. Today, I received a phone call requesting to discuss my experience etc.
Upon calling them back, I googled the phone number first. It's a temping agency. No where does it say I'm looking for temp work, and the infor I posted clearly states what I'm interested in, why and when I'm available.
This girl, while pleasant, continued to call me by the wrong name. Correcting her each time. Each time. She sounded confused when I advised her I wasn't interested in temporary work.
She would say things like, "Are you just temping until the new year then looking for new employment?". or "How are long is your contact there for?", and without listening to my responses, "Well, why don't you contact me closer to when you're available for work, and I'll help you find some temping".
Informing her repeatedly, that I was employed full-time until the New Year, and was looking for full-time, stable employment. Hoping to be gainfully employed full time permanent with a new company with a start date of Jan 3, 2012.
She still didn't get it.
I had to simply ask her if she actually read my resume and cover letter etc. Cos it was clearly stated as to what the situation is. Had she read that, she would have known. I understand she's just recruiting etc. but come on... know your audience.
I had to laugh when she asked me to pass along her contact information to anyone else in the accounting dept that may need her assistance. I giggled, and advised "Sure I'll send that infor to NY for you".
This contact bugged me slightly as the information was there to be had. Had it not, I'd understand completely her calling me.
Know your audience.
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Work Wife
The work wife and I were chatting last week, and I said something about updating my blog. Which to she replied, "I know, I do read your blog. Sometimes I learn more there than you tell me. It would be nice to know you were dating".
:=( I felt bad.
Not talking about the dating was hard. I tell the work wife everything. But this was working out well and the only thing I'd done differently was not talking about it. I wanted to tell her. It did feel like I was keeping a secret from her. I was, but not out malicious intent. Just from Murphy's Law.
I explained, (which she already knew), the blog was for venting and sometimes it's just easier to blog about it, than to share the grief or stress of what is bothering me with friends. Not weigh them down with my whining etc.
I'm a pretty open book. My heart and life are mostly on my sleeve. I don't keep much to myself, ever. And while some people appreciate that, other's don't, hence one the reasons I blog.
I'm sure the work wife understands, but I do feel bad she felt like I was keeping something from her. It wasn't that I don't trust her. I do. Whole heartily.
I'm going to miss working with her. I'm not ready for a new work wife. lol
:=( I felt bad.
Not talking about the dating was hard. I tell the work wife everything. But this was working out well and the only thing I'd done differently was not talking about it. I wanted to tell her. It did feel like I was keeping a secret from her. I was, but not out malicious intent. Just from Murphy's Law.
I explained, (which she already knew), the blog was for venting and sometimes it's just easier to blog about it, than to share the grief or stress of what is bothering me with friends. Not weigh them down with my whining etc.
I'm a pretty open book. My heart and life are mostly on my sleeve. I don't keep much to myself, ever. And while some people appreciate that, other's don't, hence one the reasons I blog.
I'm sure the work wife understands, but I do feel bad she felt like I was keeping something from her. It wasn't that I don't trust her. I do. Whole heartily.
I'm going to miss working with her. I'm not ready for a new work wife. lol
Fraud Update
After the stress of hearing from cousins back east, that someone claiming to be me asked for money, cos I was "in Montreal" and was in trouble.... they obliged, then.... THEN realized it wasn't me as I had updated my facebook status about watching snow from my desk at work....not in Montreal.
Long story short, my boss was great. In a panic told her I'd have to put the company phones on voicemail and make a ton of calls before they all closed for the night. Once all my cards and bank account were closed, credit bureau's and police called and a fraud alert put on my name. I went home.
...Only to end up making myself sick with the stress that my family had fallen victim to this and were out a few thousand dollars. Again, my boss rocks. She completely understood the importance of getting this taken care of. This is my identity!!! Plus, work, migraines and nausea are not a good combo.
The roommate was so sweet to me too. I texted him while he studied in his room, asking him not to do his dishes that night, the noise from it might actually make my head explode as I laid on the couch in the dark, cool room, watching tv on mute. (not knowing why or what was stressing me out).
Now, don't let it get out that my roommate has a sweet side. He has a reputation of being a jerk to protect. I woke up Friday to a note on the coffee machine, telling me to feel better. Followed by a few text messages of him checking up on me throughout the day. Can we all say "awwwwwww".
I've spoken with the cousins since Thursday, and we've all done all we can do at this point. Should there be a chance of this person getting caught, we'll all press charges. Sadly, it's unlikely this person will ever be caught.
In the end it comes to this. We're alive, safe, and healthy. That is unless my identity is used for something else, then I'll track this person down and hurt them.
Long story short, my boss was great. In a panic told her I'd have to put the company phones on voicemail and make a ton of calls before they all closed for the night. Once all my cards and bank account were closed, credit bureau's and police called and a fraud alert put on my name. I went home.
...Only to end up making myself sick with the stress that my family had fallen victim to this and were out a few thousand dollars. Again, my boss rocks. She completely understood the importance of getting this taken care of. This is my identity!!! Plus, work, migraines and nausea are not a good combo.
The roommate was so sweet to me too. I texted him while he studied in his room, asking him not to do his dishes that night, the noise from it might actually make my head explode as I laid on the couch in the dark, cool room, watching tv on mute. (not knowing why or what was stressing me out).
Now, don't let it get out that my roommate has a sweet side. He has a reputation of being a jerk to protect. I woke up Friday to a note on the coffee machine, telling me to feel better. Followed by a few text messages of him checking up on me throughout the day. Can we all say "awwwwwww".
I've spoken with the cousins since Thursday, and we've all done all we can do at this point. Should there be a chance of this person getting caught, we'll all press charges. Sadly, it's unlikely this person will ever be caught.
In the end it comes to this. We're alive, safe, and healthy. That is unless my identity is used for something else, then I'll track this person down and hurt them.
Thursday, 17 November 2011
FRAUD ALERT
I AM NOT IN MONTREAL.
I AM NOT IN TROUBLE.
DO NOT WIRE ME ANY MONEY.
DO NOT CONFIRM ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT ME.
CONTACT ME IF ANYONE CONTACTS YOU.
I AM NOT IN TROUBLE.
DO NOT WIRE ME ANY MONEY.
DO NOT CONFIRM ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT ME.
CONTACT ME IF ANYONE CONTACTS YOU.
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Wednesday, 16 November 2011
JOB OFFER.
.......and the results are in.......
I was not offered a position with the new company.
How do I know?
Cos the job offers were sent out by email to those they wanted etc. Those who are not offered, were not. So much for the sit down one on one they said in the email. I was going to stay optimistic til the end of the day. But really, I know better. If the offer did not come in today with those who received one. Then it's not coming.
I'm not bitter. I'm not. It's just business, and now a much more realistic stress of knowing I have to find a new job. I really do not want to fall back on my severance at all if I can avoid it.
Anyone know the percentage of luck I'll have finding new employment in December for a January 2012 start? .... Anyone? Anyone? It's low.
Building character. :)
Fingers crossed. Please send me your good vibes. Actually send them to potential new employers to give them the extra sense to hire me. :)
That would be friendly. Thanks.
I was not offered a position with the new company.
How do I know?
Cos the job offers were sent out by email to those they wanted etc. Those who are not offered, were not. So much for the sit down one on one they said in the email. I was going to stay optimistic til the end of the day. But really, I know better. If the offer did not come in today with those who received one. Then it's not coming.
I'm not bitter. I'm not. It's just business, and now a much more realistic stress of knowing I have to find a new job. I really do not want to fall back on my severance at all if I can avoid it.
Anyone know the percentage of luck I'll have finding new employment in December for a January 2012 start? .... Anyone? Anyone? It's low.
Building character. :)
Fingers crossed. Please send me your good vibes. Actually send them to potential new employers to give them the extra sense to hire me. :)
That would be friendly. Thanks.
Moths & Job Update
I have a moth somewhere in my room and/or closet.
Two, TWO sweaters I wore just late last week, both now have giant holes in them now.
WTF!?
I have cedar balls in my closet already, but now, convinced they do.not.work.
I have to tear apart my closet now, vacuum, etc.. blah blah blah. boric acid is coming your way you little bugger. When I find you.... well..... bwahahahahaha
Leave my clothes alone!!! I'm actually more concerned about the new clothes I bought. My interview clothes etc. I would cry if they were ruined.
Any additional suggestions would be grand.
Job Update.
We received an email late last night that the new organization will have a reduced footprint as compared to our existing structure, and as a result we will unfortunately be unable to offer employment to all of our existing employees. They will however, be meeting with each employee individually, in some cases, job offers will be made.
I knew they would be hand picking who to take with them. I'm not surprised at all. Unless I'm offered a position, I will continue to move forward as though the offer isn't there. It's a must for survival. It will prove interesting as to whom in the office thinks they're entitled to a position, then not offered one.
Cross your fingers for me. It would be nice to move forward with the new company.
If not, life as usual, and I'll be grateful for the experience I had for the last 5 years. All the good, bad, ridiculous, and hilarious moments.
Two, TWO sweaters I wore just late last week, both now have giant holes in them now.
WTF!?
I have cedar balls in my closet already, but now, convinced they do.not.work.
I have to tear apart my closet now, vacuum, etc.. blah blah blah. boric acid is coming your way you little bugger. When I find you.... well..... bwahahahahaha
Leave my clothes alone!!! I'm actually more concerned about the new clothes I bought. My interview clothes etc. I would cry if they were ruined.
Any additional suggestions would be grand.
Job Update.
We received an email late last night that the new organization will have a reduced footprint as compared to our existing structure, and as a result we will unfortunately be unable to offer employment to all of our existing employees. They will however, be meeting with each employee individually, in some cases, job offers will be made.
I knew they would be hand picking who to take with them. I'm not surprised at all. Unless I'm offered a position, I will continue to move forward as though the offer isn't there. It's a must for survival. It will prove interesting as to whom in the office thinks they're entitled to a position, then not offered one.
Cross your fingers for me. It would be nice to move forward with the new company.
If not, life as usual, and I'll be grateful for the experience I had for the last 5 years. All the good, bad, ridiculous, and hilarious moments.
Monday, 14 November 2011
The Smell of Hockey....
....is like an aphrodisiac to me. The smell of the ice. Cold air. Metal meeting ice. Men yelling to pass the puck and of course the smell of men. Sweating. Don't judge me.
I grew up watching hockey, and the smell of used, wet gear is not exactly appealing, it is a nostalgic one. All my friends growing up played. Boys, then later men I dated all played. There is just something about the whole essences of the smell of hockey. It's Canadian. It's sexy.
I was at 4 Rinks (8 Rinks for you youngins) on the weekend with friends, watching a few guys we know play hockey. They were playing on the old Canucks practice ice which has outside seating above the ice. SWEET! The smell and sounds were intoxicating. Smacking the glass and cheering loudly when they scored. I was beaming like an idiot the rest of the day with my pink cheeks. I really miss having a b/f that plays hockey. I do.
It wasn't until recently I met someone I was seriously considering becoming exclusive with, had mentioned that he not only did not play hockey (or any sport), he HATED hockey, and sports in general. *gasp* Although, he participates in the annual Test of Metal, mountain biking race, but again, according to him, that's not a sport. You've seen the Test of Metal, or X-Games, right? It's a sport. An extreme sport.
Now, the men I date do not need to play hockey, or any sport, but it's a plus if they watch it at least. It wasn't until that moment, that I realized that hating hockey was a deal breaker. I know. How friggin petty am I? I decided not to move forward with this guy and put it on a friendship level as he started voicing his strong opinion of how yoga, surfing, kayaking, and other things shouldn't be considered a sport, cos they're lame etc.
Wow. He's never tried these things, and yet casted they are not sports. hmmmm. And while I'm sedentary, I do not need anyone discouraging me from my annual surfing trip or yoga days at work (which I haven't been going too lately... but I could)
What was a surprise deal breaker you learned about yourself?
I grew up watching hockey, and the smell of used, wet gear is not exactly appealing, it is a nostalgic one. All my friends growing up played. Boys, then later men I dated all played. There is just something about the whole essences of the smell of hockey. It's Canadian. It's sexy.
I was at 4 Rinks (8 Rinks for you youngins) on the weekend with friends, watching a few guys we know play hockey. They were playing on the old Canucks practice ice which has outside seating above the ice. SWEET! The smell and sounds were intoxicating. Smacking the glass and cheering loudly when they scored. I was beaming like an idiot the rest of the day with my pink cheeks. I really miss having a b/f that plays hockey. I do.
It wasn't until recently I met someone I was seriously considering becoming exclusive with, had mentioned that he not only did not play hockey (or any sport), he HATED hockey, and sports in general. *gasp* Although, he participates in the annual Test of Metal, mountain biking race, but again, according to him, that's not a sport. You've seen the Test of Metal, or X-Games, right? It's a sport. An extreme sport.
Now, the men I date do not need to play hockey, or any sport, but it's a plus if they watch it at least. It wasn't until that moment, that I realized that hating hockey was a deal breaker. I know. How friggin petty am I? I decided not to move forward with this guy and put it on a friendship level as he started voicing his strong opinion of how yoga, surfing, kayaking, and other things shouldn't be considered a sport, cos they're lame etc.
Wow. He's never tried these things, and yet casted they are not sports. hmmmm. And while I'm sedentary, I do not need anyone discouraging me from my annual surfing trip or yoga days at work (which I haven't been going too lately... but I could)
What was a surprise deal breaker you learned about yourself?
Thursday, 10 November 2011
I'm Dating.
I'm dating.
Two guys actually. Sort of. Not exclusively.
I have not mentioned anything until now, cos I wasn't sure either of them would make it to a 2nd, let alone a 3rd date.
It's a little weird to be dating and not tell a single soul, or bring them around the house. I don't need to give the roommate any ammo to be a jerk with. He thinks he's funny sometimes, when it really only funny in his head. Detour.
The guys.
Fun, handsome, but not ridiculously good looking, just the perfect amount. Employed. Single. I've had to bite my tongue hard many times, cos I have the voice of a friend nagging me "you do not always have to call bullshit", when they tell a story trying to impress me with this or that, and I really want to call them on it. Then I realized maybe this is why I'm not good at dating. Men (people in general) do not like to be called out on shit. Shit they may honestly think will win them brownie points.
Bonus points for these two men, for the following:
*NOT TALKING ABOUT EX GIRLFRIENDS.
*MONEY.
*SEXUAL PREFERENCES.
*OR ASKING FOR MINE.
They are clearly doing well for themselves, no need to advertise it. The ex's. They've both said things about them in passing, when asked, and both did not have a single bad thing to say. BONUS POINTS! Not sure why men think they're impressing us when they talk shit about an ex. Cos really, all we hear and think is "Wonder what he'll say about me?" -5 points.
They call (see"no texting") to say Hi. Arrive on time. Call (see"no texting") when they've arrived to pick me up. They open doors. Pay for dates, even though I offer every time. Ask about my life. There is a balance with these two men.
The work wife had said, I'd paid my dues with bad roommates in the past. Now I have a good one. Contemplating the same reasoning for this round of dating. I've been on enough bad dates in the past, and took a break for the last 2 years altogether. Now, I have two men interested, treating me the way I wish all men would treat women on their dates.
That's all of the information you're going to get at the moment. Call me superstitious, but there is something to be said for not talking about it so far.
Two guys actually. Sort of. Not exclusively.
I have not mentioned anything until now, cos I wasn't sure either of them would make it to a 2nd, let alone a 3rd date.
It's a little weird to be dating and not tell a single soul, or bring them around the house. I don't need to give the roommate any ammo to be a jerk with. He thinks he's funny sometimes, when it really only funny in his head. Detour.
The guys.
Fun, handsome, but not ridiculously good looking, just the perfect amount. Employed. Single. I've had to bite my tongue hard many times, cos I have the voice of a friend nagging me "you do not always have to call bullshit", when they tell a story trying to impress me with this or that, and I really want to call them on it. Then I realized maybe this is why I'm not good at dating. Men (people in general) do not like to be called out on shit. Shit they may honestly think will win them brownie points.
Bonus points for these two men, for the following:
*NOT TALKING ABOUT EX GIRLFRIENDS.
*MONEY.
*SEXUAL PREFERENCES.
*OR ASKING FOR MINE.
They are clearly doing well for themselves, no need to advertise it. The ex's. They've both said things about them in passing, when asked, and both did not have a single bad thing to say. BONUS POINTS! Not sure why men think they're impressing us when they talk shit about an ex. Cos really, all we hear and think is "Wonder what he'll say about me?" -5 points.
They call (see"no texting") to say Hi. Arrive on time. Call (see"no texting") when they've arrived to pick me up. They open doors. Pay for dates, even though I offer every time. Ask about my life. There is a balance with these two men.
The work wife had said, I'd paid my dues with bad roommates in the past. Now I have a good one. Contemplating the same reasoning for this round of dating. I've been on enough bad dates in the past, and took a break for the last 2 years altogether. Now, I have two men interested, treating me the way I wish all men would treat women on their dates.
That's all of the information you're going to get at the moment. Call me superstitious, but there is something to be said for not talking about it so far.
Monday, 7 November 2011
Apartment Update - Wrong Man. Who Knew?
You know how I wrote about my shady property owner in October?
I've tried myself to drain the dishwasher, with no avail. Today, I thought I'd follow up to see what their plan of action would be. It's been 13 days and no matter how often I run the dishwasher, it ends up with an inch of water in the bottom.
In the 9 years I've lived there, the owner has never once replied directly to me, or taken any of my calls. As angry as I can get, I always do my due diligence when writing letters, and I'm always professional on the phone. Today, he took my call. He was polite, and sincere with the matter at hand. Even pulled up a copy of the letter I wrote. There was absolutely no attitude from this guy.
And as it turns out, he mentioned what the superintendent told him, and what my letter says, do not exactly match up.
Great.
Turns out the property owner is not the problem at all. It's the middle man.
He's asked me to run a few small tests on the dishwasher, and if the results are still negative, he'll send his crew in right away. No cost. Nor will I be held responsible if I make the matter worse by running these tests per his request. He even took the time to respond to previous complaints and concerns I've enquired about. Oh, and looky here, he did reply. To the superintendent. Who never passed it along to me.
I've been bitching about the wrong man for the last 7 years.
(Jim has only been the super. for 7 of the 9 years I've been there)
I've decided moving forward, I'm going to cut out the middle man completely, and deal directly with the owner. I'm highly annoyed that the superintendent would do this. I'm not going to mention I know any of this to him. I'm just going to cut him out.
I can not tell you how relieved I am, that I was wrong about the owner.
Jim is on my shit list now.
I've tried myself to drain the dishwasher, with no avail. Today, I thought I'd follow up to see what their plan of action would be. It's been 13 days and no matter how often I run the dishwasher, it ends up with an inch of water in the bottom.
In the 9 years I've lived there, the owner has never once replied directly to me, or taken any of my calls. As angry as I can get, I always do my due diligence when writing letters, and I'm always professional on the phone. Today, he took my call. He was polite, and sincere with the matter at hand. Even pulled up a copy of the letter I wrote. There was absolutely no attitude from this guy.
And as it turns out, he mentioned what the superintendent told him, and what my letter says, do not exactly match up.
Great.
Turns out the property owner is not the problem at all. It's the middle man.
He's asked me to run a few small tests on the dishwasher, and if the results are still negative, he'll send his crew in right away. No cost. Nor will I be held responsible if I make the matter worse by running these tests per his request. He even took the time to respond to previous complaints and concerns I've enquired about. Oh, and looky here, he did reply. To the superintendent. Who never passed it along to me.
I've been bitching about the wrong man for the last 7 years.
(Jim has only been the super. for 7 of the 9 years I've been there)
I've decided moving forward, I'm going to cut out the middle man completely, and deal directly with the owner. I'm highly annoyed that the superintendent would do this. I'm not going to mention I know any of this to him. I'm just going to cut him out.
I can not tell you how relieved I am, that I was wrong about the owner.
Jim is on my shit list now.
Friday, 4 November 2011
Another positive Addition-Elle Experience
First of all, please excuse the style of this posting. I'm still foggy in the head from this cold. I seem to ramble, repeat points and words.
I had another decent experience at Addition-Elle at Market Crossing in Burnaby last night.I wrote this post a few weeks ago on the ridiculously positive bra shopping experience I had.
Last night, I didn't pan out as well as I'd hoped. Suggestion: More selection for size 18petite in narrow & bootcut leg pants. Of course the service was top-notch again. I did walk away with a few items I needed. (not to mention the 30% off I received on the scratch and win) Upon checking out, I mentioned to the girl that helped me last time etc, that I had blogged about the bra experience. She lit up, informing me someone at corporate had seen it, and had acknowledged her for the service well done!! :)
More companies could learn a few basic things from the customer service at this store!!! Seriously.
I've been to other plus size stores, walked around with my arms full of heavy clothes, while the staff stood around doing nothing, ignoring the fact I'd been requiring assistance.
Eg: #1
One time, I was so frustrated at the lack of service, I took the clothes I had gathered, took them up to the girls gossiping about what he/she said etc for the last 20 minutes, handed them my clothes and rudely remarked, since they clearly had nothing to do,(like help customers they're getting paid to help) they could put back all these clothes I had pulled to try on and had planned on buying the items that fit.....now, I wasn't going to do any of that. And left. I've been back to that store once or twice in the past years and the service still sucks donkey ass.
It's really unfortunate that many of us have been at the receiving end of staff who could care less about the people that walk into their store. Regardless of the type of store.
Eg: #2
When I had first gained weight years ago, I was only a size 14/16. (up from a size 8/10) I was browsing the bootcut jeans at the Gap @ Metrotown. Upon being asked if I needed help looking for anything, I mentioned that yes, I'd like a pair of the bootcut petite 14 jeans. I was met with a once over look from the guy, where he replied in a scoffing tone, "We don't carry your size, try shopping online". *blink* Loudly informing him that they did carry my size as I was WEARING the size 14 bootcut jeans from that very store I had bought a month earlier. His response... shrugged and walked away. Just to be clear, I still love the Gap and it's clothes, 75% of the time the service. Just wasn't impressed with the berating tone from the jerk who told me to shop online. So much to learn little one.
Those are the, thankfully, only two horrible clothing experiences I've had.
So companies out there plus size or not, apparel or not, take your lead from the outstanding customer service at Addition-Elle. I know it's just a job to many people out there, but how you act towards people giving you their hard earned money, say a lot about your professionalism and possibly the people you work for. You don't care that persons A, B or C may never return to the store you worked at cos the lack of service,but I can guarantee the corporate portion does. Which, if the right person complains, could land you without a job as a result.
Do unto others. It's simple, basic common sense, in life and business.
Well done again Addition-Elle.
I had another decent experience at Addition-Elle at Market Crossing in Burnaby last night.I wrote this post a few weeks ago on the ridiculously positive bra shopping experience I had.
Last night, I didn't pan out as well as I'd hoped. Suggestion: More selection for size 18petite in narrow & bootcut leg pants. Of course the service was top-notch again. I did walk away with a few items I needed. (not to mention the 30% off I received on the scratch and win) Upon checking out, I mentioned to the girl that helped me last time etc, that I had blogged about the bra experience. She lit up, informing me someone at corporate had seen it, and had acknowledged her for the service well done!! :)
More companies could learn a few basic things from the customer service at this store!!! Seriously.
I've been to other plus size stores, walked around with my arms full of heavy clothes, while the staff stood around doing nothing, ignoring the fact I'd been requiring assistance.
Eg: #1
One time, I was so frustrated at the lack of service, I took the clothes I had gathered, took them up to the girls gossiping about what he/she said etc for the last 20 minutes, handed them my clothes and rudely remarked, since they clearly had nothing to do,(like help customers they're getting paid to help) they could put back all these clothes I had pulled to try on and had planned on buying the items that fit.....now, I wasn't going to do any of that. And left. I've been back to that store once or twice in the past years and the service still sucks donkey ass.
It's really unfortunate that many of us have been at the receiving end of staff who could care less about the people that walk into their store. Regardless of the type of store.
Eg: #2
When I had first gained weight years ago, I was only a size 14/16. (up from a size 8/10) I was browsing the bootcut jeans at the Gap @ Metrotown. Upon being asked if I needed help looking for anything, I mentioned that yes, I'd like a pair of the bootcut petite 14 jeans. I was met with a once over look from the guy, where he replied in a scoffing tone, "We don't carry your size, try shopping online". *blink* Loudly informing him that they did carry my size as I was WEARING the size 14 bootcut jeans from that very store I had bought a month earlier. His response... shrugged and walked away. Just to be clear, I still love the Gap and it's clothes, 75% of the time the service. Just wasn't impressed with the berating tone from the jerk who told me to shop online. So much to learn little one.
Those are the, thankfully, only two horrible clothing experiences I've had.
So companies out there plus size or not, apparel or not, take your lead from the outstanding customer service at Addition-Elle. I know it's just a job to many people out there, but how you act towards people giving you their hard earned money, say a lot about your professionalism and possibly the people you work for. You don't care that persons A, B or C may never return to the store you worked at cos the lack of service,but I can guarantee the corporate portion does. Which, if the right person complains, could land you without a job as a result.
Do unto others. It's simple, basic common sense, in life and business.
Well done again Addition-Elle.
Tuesday, 1 November 2011
End Date. Dec 2011
Of course with the good news of qualifying for a loan, I've received the bad news today that our offices will close end of December 2011.
That is all I can say at this time.
That is all I can say at this time.
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