Dinner & Coffee

Had dinner last night with RJM (old curator at my museum).  Good times.
I asked him to bring his g/f, which I learned shortly after we started chatting about how they met etc, that they got married 3 weeks ago!!! 

Conversation was good. Perfect amount of time to be at dinner. No lulls in conversation and his wife is awesome too!

LC and I had been emailing each other last week in regards to updates about her being in the house and how things are going.  She mentions she'll be in town next week (current time today) and if coffee is doable.  She said she'd call me.

It's now Thursday and I haven't heard squat.  The work wife asked if I was okay NOT seeing her. I am. I however, am not cool with being blown off or stood up.  Even with the crap we've been thru in the last year or so, you'd think some simple common courtesy would still be lodged in her mind to send an email or text to say she can't fit me in. No contact is just rude. Why bring it up then? Was it just to see if I was interested, and she had no intentions of meeting up?  Is she up to regular games she's been doing for the last 23 years.  Like I've said in many previous posts, I've never once been at the receiving end of her spazzy mood swings or games. I guess I am now.

Or... I'm actually a little hurt that she didn't follow through? Nah that can't be it.. :-) Even after I sucked it up and put our shit back burner too supported her through the domestic abuse she's recently endured. Maybe old habits die harder than originally thought.

Off to get home and have the new roommate move some of his stuff in today and hang out for a bit.