My ex is making me laugh hard!
This past week and a half (longweekend included) I've been on holidays as you know. Which means I've been pretty unavailable to anyone who wasn't with me. Over the long weekend I started to receive a few text msg's from the ex. Nothing inappropriate. But the messages got whinier and whinier the more time passed and I hadn't replied.
I think he has his period.
9 messages in total. The last few asking where I was, why I wasn't at home (lovely assumption, thanks Douche) and lastly "*sigh*, I guess you're out enjoying the sun."
I love how he always assumes I'm at home when he texts me. Like I don't have a life of my own. And how he pouts when he doesn't get an immediate reply. Yet he can take up to a week to reply. That doesn't bother me, cos I'm usually just replying to his text.
I said I was moving on. And I am.
This has resulted with an very poutty and whiny ex who has a fiance.
I still stand by that I said; we could be civil and chat from time to time, but I never thought I'd be at the receiving end of a guy who's about to get his period.
I get it though. I do.
I've had those moments myself, where I just want to talk to him. Lean on him for his calm and rational reasoning when I'm being a spazz. The only difference here, I'm forthright about what I need from him in those moments and refrain from acting all needy and whiny since he decided he didn't want a life with me.
Had we been doing the on/off again thing, I totally would have tapped into the whiny "love me, snuggle me" whiny moments.
Stop being a whiny bitch, rub some dirt on it, and put your big girl panties on.
Side note: Once he stops being such a girl, I'll return his messages.
He's never going to change.
ReplyDeleteLol I know.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to my blog Jen. :-)
Men...er, boys!
ReplyDelete@Kas - ya, he has his boy moments for sure.
ReplyDeleteHe's a good guy in general, but his morals, princples, and integrity can all way out of whack. I like him best when he does things "just because" like the rest of the human race.
They DO always assume the single girl is locked up in her house all day every day, don't they? Kills them when we move on and are pining for them. I'm proud of you. Let him realize what he's lost!
ReplyDelete@Lindsey.... ya it gets better, as now he's just being mean and acting like a petulant child as of this weekend.
ReplyDeleteI replied to one text from when I wrote this entry. It was met with mass attitude and a mean remark.
To piss him off, I replied with a "lol".
He's not getting the reactions I assume he so badly wants, and its no longer a game from my end. I've moved on and now he doesn't know his next move cos I'm not showing my hand. Primarly cos I don't have a hand to show one anymore when it comes to him.