I will write about these soon, and please.do.not.judge.me.
** Love. Someone told me love is a choice, not something that happens... I'll give my input with, and without religion aspects. As I don't agree, but it's food for thought for sure!
** I've entered the dating world, and giving it some serious effort.. I NEED KNEW DATES CLOTHES AND SHOES!!! Single & Picky - we so have to meet up! I need your sexpot assistance! Dating is exhausting, however, I'm being the most honest with myself this time around, and it's resulting in many, many dates.
** I've been invited into a very real Fifty Shades of Gray scenario... and I'm giving it some serious consideration. ;-p
I think there you have it.... As I have time, and brain power, between work, the gym, dates, and sleep, I'll find time to write these blogs.
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I think love is a choice in a relationship - not the process of falling in love. We do have to make an effort to do the activities of love, compromise, do those little things - great love does take work but the glue needs to come from an organic place and not belief that I need to find someone and you're here so this will do.
ReplyDeleteThat's what she was agruing.. She claims you dont fall in love, you choose to love a person.
ReplyDeleteNothing about the work it takes to remain in love etc, or what goes into a relationship, but the actual act of falling in love, vs. choosing to love someone.
Speaking from experience - HELLS TO THE NO. That is what my relationship with CEF boiled down to and I can tell you that regardless of how nice that person might be or how much you have in common, the first time you stand in a room, meet eyes with a stranger and have some connection you cannot explain like I did with AB, you're going to realize what it is supposed to be like - you have to have a reaction, a reason to be crazy about them. If it was as this person suggests I would have just shacked up with a lady - I don't need to get warm fuzzies and I get someone who isn't going to leave the seat up.
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